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Happy Anti Valentine’s Day

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We all know that Valentine’s Day is about celebrating being in love, getting roses, a box of chocolate and all that other stuff.  Excuse me while I go over to a corner and barf!  Hey, I have my right to dislike a certain holiday!  It is so overrated and can be down right depressing to some people.  I’m cool with being single and have been for the past 2 years.  Haha, yeah, I won’t win anyone over with my sarcastic tone, but I could care less about a relationship right now.  It can be depressing to some people because they long for that special someone to spend the rest of their life with or whatever to shower them with love and attention.  Think about how they probably feel seeing others around them head over heels in love and all they probably ever hear is about the dates, gifts and all the other bullshit.  That shit gets old after awhile when you constantly hear it.  There have been times in the past I have wanted to punch someone in the face because all they could ever talk about how great their significant other was and that their life was perfect with them.  Okay, so when that significant other rips your heart out, stabs it and then hands it back to you, is your life with them still going to be perfect?  The next thing people around you will hear about is how that person was a complete asshole and you will never date anyone again.  Guess what?  That’s how the vicious starts again, by saying empty words to yourself.  When you have an asshole who completely broke your heart, don’t search for another one who you believe will put it back together.  Enjoy the single life!  Take yourself on dates and enjoy your freedom!  Most of all, take time to discover who you are.  Maybe Mr. or Ms. Un-Perfect spilled poison into you; give yourself time to purge it.  Worst thing anyone can do is get in another relationship and spit the former partner’s poison at your new love.  If you are single on Valentine’s, don’t sulk.  Be happy about being single and enjoy it!

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